

Blue Valentine
Directed by Derek Cianfrance
Dean and Cindy live a quiet life in a modest neighborhood. They appear to have the world at their feet at the outset of the relationship. However, his lack of ambition and her retreat into self-absorption cause potentially irreversible cracks in their marriage. From TMDB
86 reactions from 4 sources (Bluesky, Mastodon, TMDB reviews, Lemmy) · newest Oct 13, 2026 · last updated Oct 14, 2026 · How this works
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Blue Valentine is a 2010 drama romance film, directed by Derek Cianfrance, starring Ryan Gosling, Michelle Williams and John Doman.
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60 of 86 · most liked firstHow do you trust your feelings when they can just disappear like that? -i think the only way you can find out is ... (just) to have the feeling. Movie : Blue Valentine (2010) Director : Derek Cianfrance ...found another miracle 🌬️ 🪶 🍃
neutral · AI labelView post →I always bring up the movie Blue Valentine. It rec’d a NC-17 rating, not for the nonconsensual “finishing” or the coercive sex scene but for the cunni scene she actually enjoys & has an O from. Consensual sexual pleasure onscreen is considered pornographic 😒🥴
neutral · AI labelView post →Blue Valentine, 2010 Derek Cianfrance "Nobody baby, but you and me." #filmsky #moviesky #filmart
neutral · AI labelView post →Plex is recommending Blue Valentine in a romantic movie category lmao — if you celebrate Valentines Day, do NOT pick that movie
negative · AI labelView post →On this day in movie history: Blue Valentine directed by Derek Cianfrance released December 29, 2010. Cast: Ryan Gosling, Michelle Williams, Faith Wladyka, John Doman, Mike Vogel, Marshall Johnson, Jen Jones, Maryann Plunkett, James Benatti, Barbara Troy, Carey Westbrook, Ben Shenkman. #Drama
neutral · AI labelView post →#ALL50RTS Day 46/50 I Live With You, by Grizzly Bear (2009). Big big feels from the film Blue Valentine. Sadly I didn't get heavily into this band of musical geniuses until around the time they broke up. Now they're doing some US shows this year - I'd be there in a flash if I could!
neutral · AI labelView post →It was pitched as a fun rom-com (which it isn’t really) and the trailer said from the director of Blue Valentine and Beyond the Pines who are they marketing too?? It cost $19 million and made $35 which makes sense for this movie. Let’s not make it seem like this movie is the end of Hollywood.
neutral · AI labelView post →Blue Valentine. Part of me is still buried beneath the wreckage of that movie’s relationship collapse. A beautiful, completely miserable movie
neutral · AI labelView post →I don't think any movie captures falling in love and falling painfully out of love better than Blue Valentine (2010). Definitely in my top 10. Raw emotion exhibited is next level. I don't think any other movie captures it better.
positive · AI labelView post →Tonight I suggested a film to my friend as a great explanation of my marriage and realized instead of what I Said, Blue Velvet, I meant Blue Valentine. Do I let it ride or WHAT.
neutral · AI labelView post →Last night I, a notorious movie name forgetter, somehow managed to correctly identify Blue Valentine from less than five minutes of muted footage. This is a dumb superpower
neutral · AI labelView post →Blue Valentine. Fantastic lead performances by Williams and Gosling. Well constructed movie too.
positive · AI labelView post →a favorite film that starts with the letter “B” #filmsky Blue Valentine (2010)
positive · AI labelView post →Blue Valentine [81] is on Paramount+ www.metacritic.com/movie/blue-v... #11pmspecial "Extraordinary and beautiful." - Mick LaSalle, San Francisco Chronicle
neutral · AI labelView post →New Physical Media from eBay! Regained a new copy of Blue Valentine but in Bluray after letting go of my dvd collection years ago. I love this movie. #filmsky #PhysicalMedia #promosky
positive · AI labelView post →I second Blue Valentine. The last movie that made me cry a lot was Didi.
positive · AI labelView post →Total Recall. The Outsiders. The Untouchables. Jurassic Park. Blue Valentine. Chasing Amy. Wall Street. Scary Movie. The Piano.
neutral · AI labelView post →We were both excited to see the new Ryan Gosling movie, Blue Valentine.
neutral · AI labelView post →[Blue Valentine](https://www.themoviedb.org/movie/46705-blue-valentine) (2010) This beautifully raw film looks at a relationship in stages juxtapositional. It's euphoric, passionate, morose, and hopeful. It's the nature of love in real life and for most of us, will cut close to the heart. It's glorious. [That Thing You Do!](https://www.themoviedb.org/movie/9591-that-thing-you-do) (1996) A classic tale of the 50-60s music industry done in the typical fun biopic style so much that I believed…
positive · AI labelView post →Not a mid movie but I fucked up and told my now-partner of 7 years my favorite movie was Blue Valentine so we watched it about a year in as a date night thing.
neutral · AI labelView post →Blue Valentine (2010) Dir. Derek Cianfrance #filmsky #movies #movie #cinema #film #films
neutral · AI labelView post →Have watched two lovely films tonight - first up Blue Valentine, with Ryan Gosling and Michelle Williams. Then Jemima and Johnny, Lionel Ngakane's 1966 short about a friendship between a young white boy and a black girl. It's gorgeous: player.bfi.org.uk/free/film/wa...
positive · AI labelView post →Yes! I love Blue Valentine, too, but The Place Beyond just has so many layers. It's a devastating movie. So glad you're a Dark City fan. I'm still punching myself for selling my Director's Cut DVD.
positive · AI labelView post →All valid points. Let me tell you, never watch Blue Valentine. That movie *fucked me up*.
negative · AI labelView post →Blue Valentine [81] is a Metacritic Must-See (free on Tubi/Roku): www.metacritic.com/movie/blue-v... #11pmspecial "It is brutal, compassionate, beautiful in its ugliness and one of the bravest films of the year." - Rex Reed, Observer
neutral · AI labelView post →Rewatching Blue Valentine. I don't think I gave this movie a fair chance the first time. #filmsky
neutral · AI labelView post →just watched Blue Valentine for the first time since it came out like 16 years ago, and except for maybe one iffy scene (dinner table scene to hastily make us know her dad was bad) it still holds up as a hell of a movie. and Michelle Williams is a treasure
positive · AI labelView post →I JUST FOUND THIS OUT but in the movie Blue Valentine, there’s a scene where Ryan’s character goes down on his wife, and because of that, the movie was rated R, and Ryan did not agree with that because “men get oral in movies and they don’t get R ratings, it feels like a double standards”
neutral · AI labelView post →Maybe he doesn't know which movie he's in. I saw a dad and kiddo nope the fuck out of Blue Valentine once dad realized his mistake. 😬
neutral · AI labelView post →This looks like the Ryan Gosling Lending Library that I set up at work, after everyone discovered his genius in Crazy Stupid Love. I inadvertently traumatised so many people with mu favourite film of all time (Blue Valentine, obvs).
positive · AI labelView post →I saw Satisfaction at BFI Flare last night. A phenomenal piece of work. Beautifully shot. Powerhouse central performance from Emma Laird. A film that tackles a subject I can't mention without spoilers in a way I've never seen before. Blue Valentine x Aftersun x Chronology of Water x The Souvenir
neutral · AI labelView post →Nooooo, and tbf I was in the middle of a bad divorce and saw Blue Valentine in Times Square like I was in my own sad movie
neutral · AI labelView post →Not a movie per se, but my now-husband and I went on a string of dates to movies that were about A Marriage On The Rocks (I think one of them was Blue Valentine?). They were mostly good films, but their outlook on a newish relationship's future got pretty depressing after a while.
neutral · AI labelView post →Blue Valentine was very good, and I think it may well be the first film I've seen with an A from the Onion AV Club
positive · AI labelView post →The last emotionally exhausting movie I watched in recent memory was Blue Valentine. I took a long break from those types of films after that one.
neutral · AI labelView post →#bestfilminlondontoday Feb 16 at capitalcelluloid.blogspot.com guide to London rep cinema scene. Such committed acting from Michelle Williams & Ryan Gosling in BLUE VALENTINE and it’s heartbreaking. 35mm screening @princecharlescinema.com capitalcelluloid.blogspot.com/2026/01/capi...
neutral · AI labelView post →Every Sunday I look back at the preceding week in Kpop and pick out a music video or performance that I have particularly liked. This week I have chosen NMIXX -- Blue Valentine. I really like the way the changes in tempo make this a cute song with a twist. Although I usually pay little attention to Kpop lyrics some clever touches in the lyrics caught my attention here: for example, the succession of "I'm falling over and over and over" by "You're getting colder and colder and colder" with a…
neutral · AI labelView post →Introduce yourself using only one food you refuse to eat, one movie you'll never watch again, and one song you can't stand. Octopus. All seafood really, but, gun to my head? Octopus. Blue Valentine. I watched that movie 30 years ago, in my house. I'm good. That first, let me take a selfie song.
negative · AI labelView post →In terms of critical reception, is Blue the most successful color to put in a movie title? (Blue Velvet, Blue Ruin, Blue Valentine, Blue Jasmine, Blue is the Warmest Color, Perfect Blue)
neutral · AI labelView post →Blue Valentine. Not a bad movie, per se, but it’s a helluva dark cloud over a first date
neutral · AI labelView post →Took a dat to see Blue Valentine because she "loves Ryan Gosling." That was NOT the film either of us were anticipating.
neutral · AI labelView post →Blue Valentine (Derek Cianfrance, 2010) #movie #moviesky #moviescenes #film #filmsky
neutral · AI labelView post →watched Blue Valentine for the first time yesterday. what a movie. really felt like it was made for me (my parents lived in PA, my dog died & then they got divorced later)
positive · AI labelView post →That “Blue Valentine” movie is sad.
negative · AI labelView post →What is one movie world you'd like to live in? "Blue Valentine" seems pretty fun.
neutral · AI labelView post →Of every interview I’ve watched about this movie, nothing has filled me with terror and dread like Leigh saying Blue Valentine and Amour were inspirations for the lead characters’ relationship in the film
neutral · AI labelView post →In 2011 every couple I knew went to see Ryan Gosling and Michelle Williams in a cute romantic indie film with a cute font on the poster. I swear, the Blue Valentine breakup bubble is real.
neutral · AI labelView post →🧵Everyone involved in Blue Valentine DEMANDED a review of this. Ryan Gosling was especially vocal that women experiencing pleasure & exlicit consent were not pornogrpahic. Anyway, just a fascinating year of women & sex on film it you're into that kinda thing...
neutral · AI labelView post →We need another movie like Blue Valentine that makes every couple breakup after watching it.
neutral · AI labelView post →Netflix gets around to adapting Hatchet Derek Cianfrance, the filmmaker behind Blue Valentine and The Place Beyond The Pines, will direct the movie adaptation of Gary Paulsen's 1987 survival novel Hatchet. #media #netflix #news
neutral · AI labelView post →I’m sure this is related, but I just saw this morning that Netflix & Derek Cianfrance (Place Beyond the Pines/Blue Valentine) are adapting this as a movie.
neutral · AI labelView post →Movie is Blue Valentine, and also this is the scene that almost pushed them to NC-17 rating!
neutral · AI labelView post →Roofman (2025) is quite good, the story is apparently almost entirely true, Channing Tatum doing solid work as a lead backed by an incredibly stacked cast. Only at the end did I realize its a Derek Cianfrance film (Blue Valentine, The Place Beyond The Pines).
neutral · AI labelView post →Oh, Blue Valentine. Without question. Brilliant film in every single aspect of the production, but omg did it hit home way too hard. If you havent seen it, watch it. Michelle Williams and Ryan Gosling at their absolute best. So good it almost hits levels of uncomfortable to watch. But watch it.
positive · AI labelView post →Has any film with blue in the title *not* been a soul draining experience? (Blue Valentine, Blue is the Warmest Color, Blue Velvet, Blue Lagoon)
neutral · AI labelView post →shoutout Derek Cianfrance for being the greatest director ever, that man got me to watch an ad WILLINGLY!!!! Blue Valentine will forever be one of my fav movies idc if it makes me depressing or whtvr, i could talk abt that movie for AGES i ♡ Michelle Williams
positive · AI labelView post →#bluevalentine in #sacramento tonight , & beyond . 87% #reviews 77% audience @ #regalmovies s www.fandango.com/blue-valenti...
neutral · AI labelView post →#NowWatching Blue Valentine in theaters @RegalMovies Once again I am watching on the big screen, the 2010 Oscar nominated film starring Ryan Gosling and Michelle Williams. Part of XOXO, Regal February movie series. #fikmsky
neutral · AI labelView post →#bestfilminlondontoday Feb 16 at capitalcelluloid.blogspot.com guide to London rep cinema scene. Such committed acting from Michelle Williams & Ryan Gosling in BLUE VALENTINE and it’s heartbreaking. 35mm screening @princecharlescinema.com capitalcelluloid.blogspot.com/2026/01/capi...
neutral · AI labelView post →Nothing like a little romantic movie for the holiday. Watching Blue Valentine 💘
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