He's Just Not That Into You (2009) poster
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FilmPG-132009

He's Just Not That Into You

ComedyRomanceDrama

Directed by Ken Kwapis

Remember that really cute girl/guy who said they'd call – and didn't? Maybe they lost your number. Maybe they're in the hospital. Maybe they're awed by your looks, brains or success. Or maybe... They're just not that into you. From TMDB

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He's Just Not That Into You is a 2009 comedy romance drama film, directed by Ken Kwapis, starring Ben Affleck, Jennifer Aniston and Drew Barrymore.

  • 45 people have posted about this film on Bluesky, Mastodon
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  • Michael Hobbes @michaelhobbes.bsky.socialBluesky · Jul 15, 2025

    Also this sub and its sibling, r/niceguys, are toxic as fuck but I cannot stop reading them since I stumbled on them researching our "He's Just Not That Into You" episode. Stay safe out there straights!

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  • If Books Could Kill @ifbookspod.bsky.socialBluesky · Jul 31, 2025

    Episode 43: He's Just Not That Into You Ladies, are you hung up on a man? Consider asking a different, worse man about how to proceed.

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  • Disney Prime Video + ᵖᵃʳᵒᵈʸ @disneyprimevideo.bsky.socialBluesky · Nov 15, 2025

    He's Just Not That Into You (2009)

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  • Jesse @jesse.idBluesky · Aug 21, 2026

    #LastFourWatched #LetterboxdFriday How To Train Your Dragon About Last Night Dean Spanley He's Just Not That Into You #MovieSky #Filmsky 📽 I follow back :) letterboxd.com/jesse_id/

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  • Elle "Stats" Harmony @noelleharmony.bsky.socialBluesky · Jan 31, 2025

    I'd highly recommend that Trina go to the library and check out a copy of "He's Just Not That Into You." #GH

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  • Erin (Snow Mephit Era) @erinsopran.bsky.socialBluesky · Sep 6, 2025

    Weirder, the latest one was "He's Just Not That Into You"

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  • tapas @tapaseaswar.comBluesky · Jun 22, 2025

    Ugh, "He's Just Not That Into You," on Valentine's Day no less

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  • Joey Joe 🤪 @poniboi113.bsky.socialBluesky · Apr 3, 2026

    2026-04-02 (tt) He's just not that into you #pambondi #attorneygeneral #fired #trump #hesjustnotthatintoyou

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  • Vichy Democrats will not see heaven @agentincommand.bsky.socialBluesky · Apr 5, 2026

    Wannabe State Media thrown into the plot of He's Just Not That Into You

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  • Jeff Jachens @jeffjwarwick.bsky.socialBluesky · Aug 19, 2026

    This "He's Just Not That Into You" remake is off the hook, yo! #DotardInChief

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  • C.J. "Halloween name" Subko @cjsubko.bsky.socialBluesky · Nov 3, 2026

    HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU was basically just a manual for my life lol (and not the cute ending)

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  • ScruffyR (NO LISTS!) @scruffyr.bsky.socialBluesky · Jul 16, 2026

    Has he ever seen the movie "He's Just Not That Into You"? Should be changed to WE'RE. He's an absolute moron who doesn't see he's a moron. I'd go onmor but it doesn't change the fact that he's a moron.

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  • ​Michael King​ 🩷 @heymichaelking.bsky.socialBluesky · Jul 10, 2026

    Please stop saying 'situationship' out loud. IDK, it's just the kind of thing that's going to age like the movie 'He's Just Not That Into You.'

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  • b'asil briar emporium @prirnrose.bsky.socialBluesky · Jan 4, 2026

    1. He's Just Not That Into You (2009) | movie ⭐⭐½ a comedy/romance but i never laughed once and all the couples were horrendous. i did not like a single man in this movie but the boat guy, even then he was kind of unbearable. the music is my favorite early 2000's genre so it gets a star for it.

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  • RandyLittlesMovies @randylittlesmovies.bsky.socialBluesky · Aug 12, 2026

    My ★★★ review of He's Just Not That Into You (2009) on @letterboxd: boxd.it/2zF3WZ)

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  • Nilus ☾ Comms Open! @nilusart.bsky.socialBluesky · Aug 4, 2026

    12. ... My love life is a constant replay of He's Just Not That Into You, but without the happy ending where the friend falls for the main character 😅

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  • BoxOfficeReport.com @boxofficereport.bsky.socialBluesky · Jan 26, 2026

    Daily Top 5 Films on Prime Video at the end of Sunday, January 25, 2026 1. Sinners 2. Meg 2: The Trench 3. A Minecraft Movie 4. A Cinderella Story 5. He's Just Not That Into You #SinnersMovie #PrimeVideo

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  • BoxOfficeReport.com @boxofficereport.bsky.socialBluesky · Jan 23, 2026

    Daily Top 5 Films on Prime Video at the end of Thursday, January 22, 2026 1. A Minecraft Movie 2. Sinners 3. A Cinderella Story 4. Meg 2: The Trench 5. He's Just Not That Into You #MinecraftMovie #PrimeVideo

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  • metacritic @metacritic.comBluesky · May 19, 2025

    He's Just Not That Into You [47] is on Max: www.metacritic.com/movie/hes-ju... #11pmspecial "The result is Woody Allen lite, with some deft observations about how the social media designed to bring singles together are actually coming between them." - Carrie Rickey, Philadelphia Inquirer

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  • BoxOfficeReport.com @boxofficereport.bsky.socialBluesky · Jan 25, 2026

    Daily Top 5 Films on Prime Video at the end of Saturday, January 24, 2026 1. Sinners 2. A Minecraft Movie 3. Meg 2: The Trench 4. A Cinderella Story 5. He's Just Not That Into You #SinnersMovie #PrimeVideo

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  • BoxOfficeReport.com @boxofficereport.bsky.socialBluesky · Jan 24, 2026

    Daily Top 5 Films on Prime Video at the end of Friday, January 23, 2026 1. Sinners 2. A Minecraft Movie 3. Meg 2: The Trench 4. A Cinderella Story 5. He's Just Not That Into You #SinnersMovie #PrimeVideo

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  • Two Strike Noise @twostrikenoise.bsky.socialBluesky · Oct 8, 2026

    I've never seen, 'He's Just Not That Into You' before. Apparently, neither have the #Phillies

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  • Buffalo Temple of Music, Sports, and Whatever @sethfromthe716.bsky.socialBluesky · Sep 12, 2026

    He's Just Not That Into You Anymore #HipsterASeriesOrMovie

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  • Confidently Paranoid @niblick-iii.bsky.socialBluesky · Sep 3, 2026

    I was going to look at the British list until I hit Star Trek aka the film I saw 5 times at the cinema whilst being a student. But I didn't need to know that Paul Blart: Mall Cop and He's Just Not That Into You are also 17 years old...

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  • Owen Croak @owencroak.bsky.socialBluesky · Jul 31, 2026

    Big money to be made by the guy can turn out a "He's Just Not That Into You" style dating guide for the too-online lady. "He says I'm too mistrustful of the establishment." "Girl, get my book, 'He Thinks You're a Fucking Moron.'"

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  • BoxOfficeReport.com @boxofficereport.bsky.socialBluesky · Jan 27, 2026

    Daily Top 5 Films on Prime Video at the end of Monday, January 26, 2026 1. Sinners 2. Meg 2: The Trench 3. A Minecraft Movie 4. A Cinderella Story 5. He's Just Not That Into You #SinnersMovie #PrimeVideo

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  • Danny Ragusa @therealsauce100.bsky.socialBluesky · Dec 14, 2025

    Open to anyone who wants to play. Road trip: TV/Movies Post 4 scenes, the location, and the movie/show they take place in. D.C./St. Michaels - Wedding Crashers Baltimore - Step Up Baltimore - He's Just Not That Into You Hale - Runaway Bride @babysip.bsky.social I thought you'd like this one 😊.

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  • Bianca Vandenbos @booknotions.bsky.socialBluesky · Oct 2, 2025

    Working on a substack which is a movie review of He's Just Not That Into You. What I plan on including is how my perspective changed when I first saw it as a 17 year old, to now as a 33 year old, appreciating it in different ways and seeing how some characters grew more than others!

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  • David J Sharko @shark0.bsky.socialBluesky · Feb 13, 2025

    "He's Just Not That Into You,": the movie that fails the Bechdel test the fast AND the most.

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  • Killer Kurts from Outer Space 🎃 @cenobitekurt.bsky.socialBluesky · Dec 27, 2024

    The hardest part about watching "He's Just Not That Into You" for the first time was believing anyone could ever cheat on Jennifer Connelly. Talk about immersion-breaking. Alright movie, though.

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  • Elizabeth S @manhttnfoodproj.bsky.socialBluesky · Nov 22, 2024

    That song is so sublime, and that movie is so terrible. Of all of the iterations of that type of movie, I have a soft spot for He's Just Not That Into You because of Ken Kwapis and the Baltimore setting, and it has somehow aged better than it has any right to do, if that makes sense.

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  • Pop Culture Guru @popcultureguru.bsky.socialBluesky · Nov 13, 2024

    Top 10 Movies On #MAX (as of 11/13/2024) (US) 1. Elf 2. The Hangover 3. The Polar Express 4. Trap 5. Christmas Vacation 6. Goodfellas 7. Jurassic Park 8. He's Just Not That Into You 9. MaXXXine 10. Cirque Du Freak: The Vampire's Assistant #top10 #ranking #news #movie #entertainment

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  • Rhiannon @typenamehere.bsky.socialBluesky · Apr 23, 2024

    Yard House had this Seared Ahi Steak Sandwich that I always ordered with Spinach Dip Last time I had it though I also had four Grey Goose martinis and drank the last one rather quickly cause the movie was about to start next door I caught a matinee showing of He's Just Not That Into You (2009) 🍸

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  • Jenny - Pumpkin Spice and Human Rights ✊ @[email protected]Mastodon · Nov 9, 2023

    Heathrow’s Just Not That Into You #AirportABookOrPoem #Heathrow #HesJustNotThatIntoYou #GregBerendt #LizTuccillo #HashTagGames @hashtaggames

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  • Bibbyroo @bibbyroo.bsky.socialBluesky · Oct 30, 2026

    545 He's Just Not That Into you Rom Com with intersecting stories, none of which are all that compelling. Tons of stars, but not much depth. So obsessed with finding a man that the lack of personal fulfillment is kinda gross. #HesJustNotThatIntoYou #RomCom #RomanticComedy #Romance #Comedy #Stars

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  • Quedesenholegal @quedesenholegal.bsky.socialBluesky · Oct 29, 2026

    He's Just Not That Into You

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  • coopmike48 @coopmike48.bsky.socialBluesky · Sep 6, 2026

    Big Education Ape: HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU, MAGA: TRUMP, THE TECH BROS, AND THE WORLD'S MOST EXPENSIVE SITUATIONSHIP bigeducationape.blogspot.com/2026/09/hes-...

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  • coopmike48 @coopmike48.bsky.socialBluesky · Sep 6, 2026

    Big Education Ape: HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU, MAGA: TRUMP, THE TECH BROS, AND THE WORLD'S MOST EXPENSIVE SITUATIONSHIP bigeducationape.blogspot.com/2026/09/hes-...

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  • coopmike48 @coopmike48.bsky.socialBluesky · Sep 5, 2026

    Big Education Ape: HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU, MAGA: TRUMP, THE TECH BROS, AND THE WORLD'S MOST EXPENSIVE SITUATIONSHIP bigeducationape.blogspot.com/2026/09/hes-...

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  • coopmike48 @coopmike48.bsky.socialBluesky · Sep 5, 2026

    Big Education Ape: HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU, MAGA: TRUMP, THE TECH BROS, AND THE WORLD'S MOST EXPENSIVE SITUATIONSHIP bigeducationape.blogspot.com/2026/09/hes-...

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  • Movies • TV Shows & Physical Bluray Media 🍿 @movies-on-sale.bsky.socialBluesky · Aug 29, 2026

    The (movie) He's Just Not That Into You 1080p (iTunes)(UK) £2.99 (Comedy) (iMDB) 6.0 Cast: Ben Affleck, Jennifer Aniston, Drew Barrymore, Jennifer Connelly, Kevin Connolly, Bradley Cooper

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  • Dylan Keeling @mrdylankeeling.bsky.socialBluesky · Aug 6, 2026

    Watching He's Just Not That Into You (2009) and my review so far: The problem with this movie is everybody's crazy but nobody's eccentric.

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  • New On Netflix UK [Fan Account] @uk.newonnetflix.infoBluesky · May 11, 2026

    He's Just Not That Into You (2009) 2hr 9m [12] [Streaming Again] The lives of Baltimore residents overlap while they navigate the complexities and pitfalls of modern relationships as both friends and lovers. #NowStreaming #Netflix #NetflixUK

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  • spookyrainwater.bsky.social @spookyrainwater.bsky.socialBluesky · Jan 27, 2026

    🎉 I just finished a Reely! 🎬 Good Will Hunting (1997) → A Beautiful Mind (2001) 3️⃣ Frames | 0️⃣ Hints 🎞️ My Reel: Good Will Hunting (1997) → Ben Affleck → He's Just Not That Into You (2009) → Jennifer Connelly → A Beautiful Mind (2001) 🔥 Streak: 20 days

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  • Yappy Weirdo @whats-yappening.bsky.socialBluesky · Dec 16, 2025

    I did see He's Just Not That Into You and I don't think any movie has made me more mad 😅

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  • Movie Toast News & Reviews @movietoast.bsky.socialBluesky · Nov 1, 2025

    #NewLineCinema is rebooting their #romcom #HesJustNotThatIntoYou youtube.com/shorts/4zEM9...

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  • Moviz Ark @[email protected]Mastodon · Oct 28, 2025

    A 'He’s Just Not That Into You' Reboot is Reportedly in the Works!! #HesJustNotThatIntoYou https://movizark.com/2025/10/28/a-hes-just-not-that-into-you-reboot-is-reportedly-in-the-works/

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  • LibrarianWho @librarianwho.bsky.socialBluesky · Aug 19, 2025

    Trump needs to watch the movie "He's Just Not That Into You"

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  • Movies • TV Shows & Physical Bluray Media 🍿 @movies-on-sale.bsky.socialBluesky · Aug 6, 2025

    The (movie) He's Just Not That Into You (HD) is available today on (Amazon)(US) for $7.99 Cast: Ben Affleck, Jennifer Aniston, Drew Barrymore, Jennifer Connelly, Kevin Connolly, Bradley Cooper Genre: (Comedy) (Movies Anywhere) www.rottentomatoes.com/m/hes_just_n...

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  • Movies • TV Shows & Physical Bluray Media 🍿 @movies-on-sale.bsky.socialBluesky · Jun 6, 2025

    The (movie) He's Just Not That Into You (HD) is available today on (iTunes) (Brazil) for R$12.90 Cast: Ben Affleck, Jennifer Aniston, Drew Barrymore, Jennifer Connelly, Kevin Connolly, Bradley Cooper Genre: (Comedy) Trailer & Reviews : www.rottentomatoes.com/m/hes_just_n...

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  • breakfastmachine.bsky.social @breakfastmachine.bsky.socialBluesky · Jan 28, 2025

    I'm watching He's Just Not That Into You. Might be a perfect movie. casting director needs an award for putting Jennifer Aniston, Ginnifer Goodwin, Jennifer Connelly, and Kevin Connelly in a movie together.

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  • Amy @xamyelle.bsky.socialBluesky · Jan 23, 2025

    I'm suddenly reminded of that movie "He's Just Not That Into You." When someone is acting like they don't give a shit about you...it's because they genuinely don't give a shit about you. Everyone wants to think they're the exception when they are definitely the rule. #FAFO

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  • Xavion Writes Stuff @itsxavion.bsky.socialBluesky · Jan 21, 2025

    "He's Just Not That Into You" is actually such a helpful guide for anyone who dates men. Because now matter the sexual orientation, a man who wants you will make it known that he wants you. Watching this movie is always like going to a self-love seminar.

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  • Movies • TV Shows & Physical Bluray Media 🍿 @movies-on-sale.bsky.socialBluesky · Dec 21, 2024

    The Just Friends / He's Just Not That Into You (2 Movie Collection) is available today on (iTunes) for $9.99 Films include: Just Friends, He's Just Not That Into You, Cast: Ben Affleck, Ryan Reynolds, Jennifer Aniston, Amy Smart, Drew Barrymore, Anna Faris

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  • Rhiannon @typenamehere.bsky.socialBluesky · Apr 29, 2024

    Of course it's taking me forever to finish watching one movie but He's Just Not That Into You (2009) is a bit excruciating to watch Especially the neurotic Gigi character that keeps going on several dates yeah I find her annoying But who would've thunk the dating scene would be much gross today 💬

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  • QuirkyFilms @[email protected]Mastodon · Mar 19, 2024

    Mar 20 : Proposal 💍 #Bales2024FilmChallenge #FilmMastodon 📽️ 🎬 @bales1181 #HesJustNotThatIntoYou (2009) Neil proposes to Beth with a pair of cargo pants. "I want to make you happy. I need to make you happy for me to even have a shot at being happy". #BenAffleck #JenniferAniston

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  • Jenny - Pumpkin Spice and Human Rights ✊ @[email protected]Mastodon · Jun 28, 2023

    He’s Just Not That Into Your Instance #MastodonAMovie #HashtagGames #HesJustNotThatIntoYou

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  • Jenny - Pumpkin Spice and Human Rights ✊ @[email protected]Mastodon · Feb 26, 2023

    “He’s Just Not That Into You” (looking at you, Bradley Cooper) #SongsOrMoviesAboutInfidelity #HashtagGames #HesJustNotThatIntoYou #BradleyCooper @hashtaggames

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