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She Came to Me

RomanceComedyDrama

Directed by Rebecca Miller

Composer Steven Lauddem is plagued by a creative block which leaves him unable to finish the score for his big comeback opera. When his former therapist-turned-wife Patricia suggests he rekindle his creativity by getting lost in the city, Steven sets out in search of inspiration. His epiphany comes after he meets a spirited woman named Katrina and discovers his life has much more potential than he bargained for, or… From TMDB

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She Came to Me is a 2023 romance comedy drama film, directed by Rebecca Miller, starring Peter Dinklage, Anne Hathaway and Marisa Tomei.

  • 45 people have posted about this film on Bluesky, Mastodon
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  • Jeff VanderMeer @jeffvandermeer.bsky.socialBluesky · May 15, 2026

    I thought She Came To Me was a lovely, kind-hearted, smart gem of a movie, written and directed by Rebecca Miller.

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  • John Keeps on Bloodsuckin’ 🚛🧛‍♂️ @johndrew-sky.bsky.socialBluesky · May 15, 2026

    #LetterboxdFriday #LastFourWatched #filmsky 📽 Excellent week. We Bury The Dead - good performances - fails to make up its mind on what type of zombie film it wants to be. A24’s Stop Making Sense restoration is mind blowing. • SHE CAME TO ME • THE FISHER KING • WE BURY THE DEAD • STOP MAKING SENSE

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  • Liz Shannon Miller @lizshannonmiller.comBluesky · Dec 12, 2025

    Thinking, as I so often do, of SHE CAME TO ME, the movie in which composer Peter Dinklage cheats on his wife Anne Hathaway with Marisa Tomei, who is a tugboat captain.

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  • dirt of the looming dawn @upfromsumdirt.blacksky.appBluesky · Apr 25, 2026

    recommending the movie, She Came To Me, starring peter dinklage, marisa tomei, and anne hathaway. it's the usual mature rom-com, but has a cheesy, predictable happy ending that sits well with me. 1 complaint outta 5 (wouldve earned 0 complaints had there been more marisa or anne)

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  • Courtney Howard @lulamaybelle.bsky.socialBluesky · Oct 5, 2023

    SHE CAME TO ME is bafflingly terrible and *not at all* the movie that’s being advertised. Bonkers in a not fun way, it takes itself way too seriously. Tonally disjointed. The cast’s shine is constantly dulled. Waste of your time. Don’t let her come to you.

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  • Marc Weidenbaum @disquiet.bsky.socialBluesky · Aug 17, 2023

    The "composer tuning to the portable vacuum" moment from :27 - :38 in this trailer for the new Anne Hathaway / Peter Dinklage / Marisa Tomei, She Came to Me, movie is everything https://youtu.be/4kwXSkIuB64

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  • Tim Grierson @timgrierson.bsky.socialBluesky · Oct 3, 2023

    Rebecca Miller has dealt with enough drama in her real life. That's why she's started shifting to making comedies. I spoke to the writer-director about mentoring Greta Gerwig, saying goodbye to her famous father, and her new film SHE CAME TO ME.

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  • Flashman85 @flashman85.bsky.socialBluesky · Jul 30, 2025

    When is a rom-com not really a rom-com? Movie review for She Came to Me: letterboxd.com/flashman85/f...

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  • Kim Ferranto @imabossfan.bsky.socialBluesky · Sep 30, 2023

    New song from #springsteen today: “Addicted to Romance” from the film ‘She Came to Me’ youtu.be/2s9thSZSm0U?...

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  • Marie Phillips @mariephillips.bsky.socialBluesky · May 18, 2026

    Attempted 'She Came To Me'; I fled from it. letterboxd.com/marie_philli...

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  • parodevi @parodevi.bsky.socialBluesky · May 11, 2025

    Can you believe in love enough to not manipulate audiences into watching you? I stumbled upon She Came To Me, a lovely little film, not afraid to be lovely, or little, or odd and wrote about it in my column #ParonormalActivity today www.mid-day.com/news/opinion...

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  • Alex Kuciw @koochew.bsky.socialBluesky · Nov 29, 2023

    2 recent movies swept under the rug quickly: CASSANDRO and SHE CAME TO ME. Caught CASSANDRO last night. Totally compelling. Good chance it will make my best of the year. And Rebecca Miller’s film is already on VOD; did it even get a theatrical release? 🎥

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  • Mayfair Theatre @mayfairtheatre.bsky.socialBluesky · Nov 3, 2023

    Old timey Mayfair Theatre bulletin board for the week of Friday November 3 - Thursday November 9! 2nd Week: -She Came To Me -The Killer -Opera- 4K Restoration! -The Maltese Falcon- Noir-vember! -Divinity- Ottawa Premiere! -The Hands Of Orlac: Silent Film/Live Music by VOC Silent Film Harmonic!

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  • Mayfair Theatre @mayfairtheatre.bsky.socialBluesky · Oct 31, 2023

    Friday November 3 - Thursday November 9 advance tickets now available from events.com! -The Killer -She Came To Me -Opera -The Hands Of Orlac: Silent Film with Live Music by VOC Silent Film Harmonic -Divinity -The Maltese Falcon Tickets & info: search.events.com#/org/289164

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  • Sarah Manvel 🎃 @cairdiul.bsky.socialBluesky · Oct 7, 2023

    She Came to Me released yesterday and while this is a largely positive review the movie doesn't entirely warrant such high praise. On the other hand, I enjoyed it quite a bit. I'd see it just for the joke Anne Hathaway tells though intheirownleague.com/2023/03/06/s...

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  • Scott Renshaw @scottrenshaw.bsky.socialBluesky · Oct 6, 2023

    New City Weekly reviews of this week's theatrical releases: THE EXORCIST: BELIEVER, THE ROYAL HOTEL, SHE CAME TO ME, INVISIBLE BEAUTY, STRANGE WAY OF LIFE, WHEN EVIL LURKS. www.cityweekly.net/BuzzBlog/arc...

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  • Tim Grierson @timgrierson.bsky.socialBluesky · Aug 30, 2023

    For the Los Angeles Times fall film preview, I talked to Rebecca Miller about her new movie "She Came to Me" and why she doesn't want you calling it her comeback.

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  • Scott Pack @meandmybigmouth.bsky.socialBluesky · Aug 12, 2026

    OK, so She Came to Me is, in many respects, a terrible film but it has a certain chaotic charm that kept me engaged. Also, the best bits concern a whole other plot that is not remotely hinted at in the trailer. Plus, of course, it has Marisa Tomei in it.

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  • 𝗚𝗥𝗘𝗘𝗡𝗦𝗧𝗢𝗡𝗘 📎 @berncomar.bsky.socialBluesky · Jun 2, 2026

    Movie suggestion on Amazon Prime: “She Came to Me.” Peter Dinklage, Anne Hathaway, Marisa Tomai, Harlow Jane (Patricia Arquette’s daughter). Brilliantly different. Brilliantly acted. Brilliantly written. Not what you’d expect. A departure from the ordinary. You’ll thank me.

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  • American Cinematheque @amcinematheque.bsky.socialBluesky · Oct 18, 2025

    Filmmaker Rebecca Miller joined us at LF3 last Saturday to introduce her film SHE CAME TO ME (2023) in 35mm as part of our retrospective 💜🎬 Stay tuned for Sunday’s MR. SCORSESE (2025) recap!

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  • American Cinematheque @amcinematheque.bsky.socialBluesky · Oct 11, 2025

    4K! THE HANDMAID'S TALE (1990) 1pm LF3 CARE BEARS MOVIE (1985) 2:30pm Aero PERSONAL VELOCITY (2002) 35mm 4pm LF3 SHE CAME TO ME (2023) 35mm 7pm LF3 BIG TROUBLE IN LITTLE CHINA (1986) 70mm 7pm Aero RETURN OF THE LIVING DEAD PART II (1988) 35mm 10pm LF3 americancinematheque.com/now-showing/

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  • Kim Ware @kimware.bsky.socialBluesky · Jan 7, 2025

    She Came to Me 10/10 - Delightful and perfectly casted. Didn't want it to end. Will rewatch on a dreary day as it's great for that. Can't believe I had not heard a thing about this wonderful film.

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  • 16 Days 16 Films @16days16films.bsky.socialBluesky · Nov 25, 2024

    DAY1️⃣| SHE CAME TO ME Directed by Saffron Burrows. Written for The Circle NGO, Marianne Jean-Baptiste recites the words of Nozuko Conjwa, manager of the Nonceba Family Counselling Centre in Khayelitsha, Cape Town. Watch the film NOW via www.16day16films.com 🎬

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  • Talcott @talcotts.bsky.socialBluesky · May 12, 2024

    I need all of you to watch She Came to Me! It’s not good, exactly, but I am already imagining a movie marathon of it, A New York Christmas Wedding, and Love on a Leash.

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  • Adam Contini @shmegegge.bsky.socialBluesky · Mar 31, 2024

    Somehow the existence of this movie escaped my notice. Also, have you seen her in She Came To Me? Fucking incredible.

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  • 🪞Mirrors In Movies @mirrorsinmovies.bsky.socialBluesky · Nov 9, 2023

    She Came to Me www.imdb.com/title/tt6689... Absolutely amazing movie !

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  • Siftpop @siftpop.bsky.socialBluesky · Oct 17, 2023

    "'She Came to Me' about the messiness of life, and the film isn’t afraid to confront the implications of exploring such ideas." Read why @robertsthoughts.bsky.social liked the film on the site! www.siftpop.com/she-came-to-...

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  • cstephens2 @cstephens2Mastodon · Oct 6, 2023

    I saw #SheCameToMe last night, not really knowing much about it. You know I love me some blockbusters, but I also love indie movies, and especially the rare occasions when I can see a movie with almost zero expectations. In this case, it was the cast of #PeterDinklage, #AnneHathaway and #MarisaTomei that drew me in, and they definitely delivered on my expectations. Congrats to writer and director #RebeccaMiller on a terrific film. #SheCameToMeFilm

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  • Scott Renshaw @scottrenshaw.bsky.socialBluesky · Oct 5, 2023

    Prediction: The Sprinsteen/Scialfa song from SHE CAME TO ME will be an Oscar nominee, and will also be the 2023 nominee most likely to cause completists to go, "Wait, I haven't even heard of that movie."

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  • Phil Edwards - Live for Films @liveforfilms.bsky.socialBluesky · Aug 21, 2023

    Watch Peter Dinklage, Marisa Tomei and Anne Hathaway in the She Came To Me trailer here https://bit.ly/3OJrh8f #SheCameToMe #PeterDinklage #MarisaTomei #AnneHathaway #film

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  • The Autistic Terp @theautisticterp.bsky.socialBluesky · May 11, 2026

    I literally just now watched “She Came to Me” with her, Peter Dinklage, and Marisa Tomei. Really interesting movie

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  • Kerri is so Very Sober @musicgirl1965.bsky.socialBluesky · Feb 28, 2025

    I will have to see if i can find out about that! Lol I am not sure exactly how I feel about him. I heard he can be a real dick. But yeah, he is a good actor. He was kind of a dick in the movie She Came to Me. It was so bizarre!

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  • Deby Tingley @dting.bsky.socialBluesky · Feb 1, 2025

    If you want to watch a quirky, entertaining, funny movie, check out "She Came to Me" on Netflix. I was pleasantly surprised by it.

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  • Jay Seaver @jayseaver.bsky.socialBluesky · Sep 15, 2024

    Movie Grid - 09/15/2024: 9/9 Correct Score: 2601 (top 14%) 🟩🟩🟩 🟩🟩🟩 🟩🟩🟩 www.moviegrid.io Huh, other people are hearing of "She Came to Me".

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  • Al Shipley @alshipley.bsky.socialBluesky · May 28, 2024

    Movie Diary - The Iron Claw, Anyone But You, Lisa Frankenstein, She Came To Me, The Idea of You, Argylle, The Beach Boys, Kiss The Future, etc. narrowcast.blogspot.com/2024/05/movi...

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  • randy | dadfarmOFFICIAL @dadfarm.failBluesky · May 23, 2024

    You ever have one of those where you can't tell if a movie is great or terrible and it's possible both are true? My ★★★★ review of She Came to Me on Letterboxd boxd.it/6wPADB

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  • Old Ain't Dead @[email protected]Mastodon · Apr 1, 2024

    #SheCameToMe an unexpected joy. #review #movies #streaming #television #DirectedbyWomen https://oldaintdead.com/she-came-to-me-an-unexpected-and-humorous-hidden-gem/

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  • Old Ain't Dead @[email protected]Mastodon · Apr 1, 2024

    #SheCameToMe is an unexpected gem full of surprises. Peter Dinklage, Anne Hathaway and Marisa Tomei shine. https://oldaintdead.com/she-came-to-me-an-unexpected-and-humorous-hidden-gem/ #movies #streaming #review #directedbywomen

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  • Cannes I Kick It? @cannesikickit.bsky.socialBluesky · Dec 22, 2023

    It's TACULAR TIME! We close out the year with a look at Rebecca Miller's SHE CAME TO ME and we hear from some of our listeners on the subject! Enjoy this great discussion about this strange movie, and have a happy new year!

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  • Jamie Summers 🍿 @jaylovesscreensMastodon · Nov 12, 2023

    #shecametome #cinemastodon #filmastodon #movies #peterdinklage My ★★★ review of She Came to Me on Letterboxd https://boxd.it/59rr95

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  • Mayfair Theatre @mayfairtheatre.bsky.socialBluesky · Oct 31, 2023

    Friday November 3 - Thursday November 9! Held Over for a 2nd Week: -She Came To Me -The Killer- Ottawa Premiere! -Opera- 4K Restoration! -The Hands Of Orlac- Silent Film with Live Music by VOC Silent Film Harmonic! -Divinity- Ottawa Premiere! -The Maltese Falcon- Noir-vember Film Festival!

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  • Mayfair Theatre @mayfairtheatre.bsky.socialBluesky · Oct 30, 2023

    She Came To Me -Held Over for a 2nd Week- Screening on November 3, 6, 7, 9! “sublimely clever!…Miller has masterfully constructed this tale” (Reel Talk) “The performances are all top-notch…There hasn’t been a rom-com this inventive in a long time” (Awards Watch) mayfairtheatre.ca/movie/she-ca...

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  • Neon Movie Bunker @neonmoviebunker.bsky.socialBluesky · Oct 26, 2023

    New show alert! Here's one where we discuss #SheCameToMe and #WhenEvilLurks neonmoviebunker.com/314-please-d...

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  • David Daniel @daviddaniel.bsky.socialBluesky · Oct 11, 2023

    Today's piece: it was a delight to talk with Anne Hathaway, Marisa Tomei, and writer-director Rebecca Miller about the rom-com "She Came To Me," which is now in theaters.

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  • Mayfair Theatre @mayfairtheatre.bsky.socialBluesky · Oct 10, 2023

    She Came To Me - Screening on October 29, November 1, 2! “beautifully performed & directed with great charm, unexpected wisdom, & sweetness…Dinklage is brilliant” (RogerEbert.com) “sublimely clever” (Reel Talk) “The performances are all top-notch” (Awards Watch) mayfairtheatre.ca/movie/she-ca...

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  • Sheryl Nantus @[email protected]Mastodon · Oct 9, 2023

    Saw #ShecametoMe last night - wonderful #romantic comedy! If you can see it in the theater or when it goes to streaming, it's well worth the watch! Strong 8/10!

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  • Torontoplex @torontoplex.bsky.socialBluesky · Oct 6, 2023

    New - Almodovar's STRANGE WAY OF LIFE, Kitty Green's THE ROYAL HOTEL, Midnight Madness pick WHEN EVIL LURKS, docs JOAN BAEZ: I AM A NOISE and BLACK BARBIE, Rebecca Miller's SHE CAME TO ME, Rhys Darby in RELAX, I'M FROM THE FUTURE, more! Now playing in TO: letterboxd.com/torontoplex/... #toOpening

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  • FilmBook @FilmBookMastodon · Oct 5, 2023

    SHE CAME TO ME (2023): Anne Hathaway Captures the Experience of a Nervous Breakdown in Her New Film https://film-book.com/she-came-to-me-2023-anne-hathaway-captures-the-experience-of-a-nervous-breakdown-in-her-new-film/?feed_id=89571&_unique_id=651e21ed31d16 #FilmBook #AnneHathaway #MarisaTomei #MovieNews #PeterDinklage #SheCametoMe

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  • Torontoplex @torontoplex.bsky.socialBluesky · Oct 5, 2023

    New - Almodovar's STRANGE WAY OF LIFE, K Green's THE ROYAL HOTEL, Midnight Madness selection WHEN EVIL LURKS, docs JOAN BAEZ: I AM A NOISE and BLACK BARBIE, R Miller's SHE CAME TO ME, Rhys Darby in RELAX, I'M FROM THE FUTURE, more! Opening in Toronto: letterboxd.com/torontoplex/... #toOpening

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  • Joshua Kosman @joshuakosman.bsky.socialBluesky · Oct 4, 2023

    I put in my dibs to review "She Came to Me" for @sfchronicle.bsky.social because the trailer made me think it was going to be a witty, inventive comedy set in the opera world. Turns out that's true of about 1/3 of the movie, and the rest is tripe. ☹️

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  • Last One to Leave @LastOneToLeaveMastodon · Oct 4, 2023

    This week on Fanbolt I preview 10 new movies including #ExorcistBeliever, #TheBurial, #Foe, #SheCametoMe, and #TotallyKiller https://www.fanbolt.com/148262/10-new-movies-coming-out-this-week-october-2-8-2023/

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  • Jennifer🤟🏼♊️ @silverwyvern99.bsky.socialBluesky · Sep 29, 2023

    Addicted to Romance (from the film 'She Came to Me' - Official Lyric Video) - Bruce Springsteen & Patti Scialfa youtu.be/2s9thSZSm0U?...

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  • Phil Edwards @PhilEdwardsMastodon · Aug 21, 2023

    Watch Peter Dinklage, Marisa Tomei and Anne Hathaway in the She Came To Me trailer here https://bit.ly/3OJrh8f #SheCameToMe #PeterDinklage #MarisaTomei #AnneHathaway #film

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  • HOTCHKA @[email protected]Mastodon · Aug 18, 2023

    She Came to Me | Official Trailer (HD) | Vertical A composer with an unfinished opera, a spiritually conflicted psychiatrist, a free-spirited tugboat captain collide on an unpredictable voyage into uncharted waters in writer-director Rebecca Miller’s enchanting romantic comedy. #SheCameToMe #Vertical #OfficialTrailer #Movies https://youtu.be/EdfEv2ZwrFs

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