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FilmPG-132023
You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah
Directed by Sammi Cohen
Stacy and Lydia are BFFs who've always dreamed about having epic bat mitzvahs. But things start to go comically awry when a popular boy and middle school drama threatens their friendship and their rite of passage. From TMDB
96 reactions from 3 sources (Bluesky, Lemmy, Mastodon) · newest Sep 4, 2026 · last updated Oct 13, 2026 · How this works
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You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah is a 2023 comedy drama film, directed by Sammi Cohen, starring Sunny Sandler, Samantha Lorraine and Dylan Hoffman.
- 84 people have posted about this film on Bluesky, Lemmy, Mastodon
- posts span Jun 23, 2023 to Sep 4, 2026
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60 of 96 · most liked firstFam and I watched and loved “You Are SO Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah” on @Netflix and it was great — strong performances by Sadie and Sunny Sandler, Samantha Lorraine, Idina Menzel Luis Guzman and of course Adam Sandler. Very enjoyable family fare ❤️
positive · AI labelView post →THE ANXIOUS SANDLER TRILOGY: -Punch-Drunk Love (2002) -Uncut Gems (2019) -You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah (2023)
neutral · AI labelView post →You cannot be saying this about the creator of "The Hanukkah Song," "Don't Mess with the Zohan," "You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah" and "Eight Crazy Nights."
neutral · AI labelView post →tonight’s very good movie was YOU ARE SO NOT INVITED TO MY BAT MITZVAH which was real in a way that made me feel flushed at times. I don’t miss anything about being 12 and 13. Yikes. Great script though by Alison Peck and lots of good kid acting!
positive · AI labelView post →I knew something was up when I saw the rating for You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah. It ranked higher than Shawshank Redemption. Let that sink in for a minute.
negative · AI labelView post →I fell head over heels in love with You Are So Not Invited To My Bat Mitzvah. It’s the spiritual successor to Judy Blume and John Hughes. My review via Variety: https://variety.com/2023/film/reviews/you-are-so-not-invited-to-my-bat-mitzvah-review-1235699435/
positive · AI labelView post →Adam Sandler celebrates 20th anniversary with Jackie Sandler - Los Angeles Times. In a rare public show of affection, Adam Sandler celebrated 20 years of marriage with Jackie Sandler by sharing earlier this week a heartfelt tribute online. The pair married during a private ceremony attended by their celebrity friends at Dick Clark’s mansion in Malibu on June 22, 2003, according to People. Sandler, who is known to be media-shy, commemorated the day by posting a photo from their wedding on…
neutral · AI labelView post →This week at @thisendsatprom.bsky.social is all about YOU ARE SO NOT INVITED TO MY BAT MITZVAH. I can't get over how good it is and truly will not shut up about it! Enjoy the episode!
positive · AI labelView post →Starting a new bi-monthly series spotlighting female and non-binary filmmakers and their work. To start of the series, we’re covering Sammi Cohen and their films “Crush” (2022) and “You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah” (2023). www.femalegazefilmclub.com/blog/filmmak...
neutral · AI labelView post →Finishing up YOU ARE SO NOT INVITED TO MY BAT MITZVAH. Boy howdy, I was not ready for this movie to turn out to be a taut psychological thriller
positive · AI labelView post →Day #247 #NowWatching You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah on #Netflix …. I’m kicking off this Adam Sandler weekend with his highest rated movie that he collaborated with his entire family for the first time. #Filmsky #Moviesky #September
positive · AI labelView post →New episode of the pod is UP We’re talking about YOU ARE SO NOT INVITED TO MY BAT MITZVAH I had a lot of THOUGHTS about it
neutral · AI labelView post →Watched "You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah" and it would appear I have the musical taste of a 13 year old Jewish girl.
positive · AI labelView post →I caught “You Are So Not Invited To My Bat Mitzvah” last night. Solid, earnest teen flick. Sunny Sandler is especially compelling and entertaining as Stacy.
positive · AI labelView post →Tonight’s entertainment consisted of going to my friend’s house and eating Smashburger, coloring, and watching You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah. Def way better than sitting at home doing nothing, which was what I thought I was gonna do
positive · AI labelView post →Going to a party with Stacy Friedman Now Watching: YOU ARE SO NOT INVITED TO MY BAT MITZVAH
neutral · AI labelView post →What I’m trying to say is YOU ARE SO NOT INVITED TO MY BAT MITZVAH is a spiritual sequel to UNCUT GEMS
positive · AI labelView post →i have absolutely no idea what the context is (if there is one) of this sweatshirt design spotted on the shitty teen crush in You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah but i DO know that it is perfect and that i want (need?) to own it
neutral · AI labelView post →This place does not have polls so sound off in the comments but here is what I am picking between: 1. How to Blow Up a Pipeline 2. You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah 3. Sisu 4. They Cloned Tyrone 📽️🎥🎞️🎬
neutral · AI labelView post →You Are So Not Invited To My Bat Mitzvah continues the tradition of Adam Sandler making masterpieces when he works with Idina Menzel.
positive · AI labelView post →Meh looked over the last ten years and I guess he always peppered crap in there. But the good ones like Reign Over Me and Punch Drunk Love and Uncut Gems and You Are So Not Invited To My Bat Mitzvah are some stand outs.
positive · AI labelView post →Adam Sandler using his exclusive film deal with Netflix to once a year call up all his family and friends and say, "Let's make a movie!" has put out some fairly decent Sunday-Afternoon-with-some-snacks-sitting-on-the-couch-in-front-of-the-fan flicks. cf: "You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah"
positive · AI labelView post →“You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah” has Lydia Rodriguez Katz (Jewish mother, Latino father) and Kym Chang Cohen (parents not shown in the movie, but presumably one Jewish, one Chinese-American).
neutral · AI labelView post →YOU ARE SO NOT INVITED TO MY BAT MITZVAH: genuinely heartfelt and affecting if rough around the edges, and yeah it's a Sandler nepo project through and through but it turns out his daughters are really entertaining actors in their own right so I'm fine with it
positive · AI labelView post →I watched You Are So Not Invited To My Bat Mitzvah, the new Adam Sandler and His Entire Family movie on Netflix and - It was cute - There's a B'nei Mitzvah for a kid who's they/them! - Pride flags EVERYWHERE at the temple and high school - Idina Menzel plays very well off Adam Sandler's frentic dad
positive · AI labelView post →I was pleasantly surprised by You Are So Not Invited To My Bat Mitzvah. As a MOT who grew up in a NY suburb, it rang true (but is definitely far from a verbatim account). youtube.com/shorts/9gugW...
positive · AI labelView post →YOU ARE SO NOT INVITED TO MY BAT MITZVAH is not a movie I'm interested in seeing (I'm hardly the target audience), but I did want to acknowledge that it's nice to see a family comedy focusing on Jewish families and traditions for a change. It's pretty rare.
neutral · AI labelView post →I love how much fun Sarah Sherman is clearly having with her character in "You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah."
neutral · AI labelView post →Say what you want about nepo babies, but both Netflix movies starring Adam Sandler's daughter Sunny have been great. You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah was delightful, and Don't Say Good Luck just made me cry all the tears.
positive · AI labelView post →I really enjoyed "You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah". Then I found out that his wife and kids were in the cast, and it made sense - get paid to hang out and make a movie with the fam.
positive · AI labelView post →Top 5 movies this week (in ordered of watched) You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah Chevalier Past Lives TMNT Phantom Thread
neutral · AI labelView post →watched You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah (d. Cohen, w. Peck, Rosenbloom)
neutral · AI labelView post →You Are So Not Invited To My Bat Mitzvah--starring Adam Sandler and the rest of the Sandler family--is unapologetically Jewish.
neutral · AI labelView post →sometimes you win a game of cine2nerdle and you're still like "there had to be a more elegant exit out of RAP WORLD than 'You Are So Not Invited To My Bat Mitzvah'" (could've hit em with the fucking I Saw The TV Glow
neutral · AI labelView post →Only 2 this week as I was finishing my "Best movies of 2025" video over the weekend and at 42mins runtime it took a while lol. You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah (2023) Very simple, but I think it still stuck the landing. I Am Mother (2019) Small scale bottle sci-fi, how did I miss this one?
positive · AI labelView post →You Are So Not Invited To My Bat Mitzvah (2023)
neutral · AI labelView post →I might be too h*gh for watching You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah.
neutral · AI labelView post →Just looking at Netflix originals only that have ended up on my best-of lists for the past couple of years… Movies GLASS ONION HUSTLE THE SEA BEAST THE MITCHELLS VS MACHINES YOU ARE SO NOT INVITED TO MY BAT MITZVAH WILL & HARPER HIT MAN LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT THIS CHRISTMAS KLAUS
neutral · AI labelView post →When am I going to get to see a romcom about Sarah Sherman’s character from You Are So Not Invited To My Bat Mitzvah being set up on a series of dates by her mom?
neutral · AI labelView post →Lots of things are terrible, but you know what is not terrible? YOU ARE SO NOT INVITED TO MY BAT MITZVAH, which I am a little late to but am watching now and is freaking delightful
positive · AI labelView post →Our latest episode is here! This week we're talking middle school-themed movies with EIGHTH GRADE, ARE YOU THERE GOD? IT'S ME MARGARET, and YOU ARE SO NOT INVITED TO MY BAT MITZVAH. Give it a listen! citizendame.podbean.com/e/episode-25...
neutral · AI labelView post →Filmsky 📽️ 𝘠𝘰𝘶 𝘈𝘳𝘦 𝘚𝘰 𝘕𝘰𝘵 𝘐𝘯𝘷𝘪𝘵𝘦𝘥 𝘵𝘰 𝘮𝘺 𝘉𝘢𝘵 𝘔𝘪𝘻𝘷𝘩𝘢𝘩 is a fantastic, heartfelt and funny look at the criss-crossings of Jewish women's adolescence and growth. My ★★★★ review of You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah (2023) on @letterboxd: boxd.it/4RSW8J
positive · AI labelView post →Just finished You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah, and that was a great time! Sandler's daughters are both pretty talented. Great younger cast throughout!
positive · AI labelView post →We just finished watching You Are So Not Invited To My Bat Mitzvah and it was so good
positive · AI labelView post →Her film credits included La La Land, You Don’t Mess with the Zohan, You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah, and Thelma. She also co-founded Actors Connection in New York, helping other performers advance their careers.
neutral · AI labelView post →#25 #NowWatching You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah (2023)
neutral · AI labelView post →Best First Watches (July 2025) 50 Million Frenchmen (1931) Sing and Like It (1934) Ziegfeld Girl (1941) Lupin III: The Castle of Cagliostro (1979) Blood Simple: Director’s Cut (1984) Woman of the Hour (2023) You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah (2023)
neutral · AI labelView post →You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah #inflightcinema www.imdb.com/title/tt2127...
neutral · AI labelView post →His newer stuff has for sure been hit and miss I really liked “You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah” though so I’m willing to give this one a try
positive · AI labelView post →You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah! - looking at the cast list, it seems to be a movie made so that Mr. Sandler could hang out with his wife and kids. And he's a reasonable dad in it, not an irritating whatever.
neutral · AI labelView post →Our Halloween Tradition: Everyone puts two movies in a hat and we pick. So far the movies have been: Violent Night You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah. Birds of Prey (The Emancipation of Harley Quinn)
neutral · AI labelView post →I'm not watching right now, so I'm choosing to believe that DJ Schmuley from "You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah" is introducing all the states.
neutral · AI labelView post →Best nepo baby movie is You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah
positive · AI labelView post →The rabbi in You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah was a pretty good parody of that vibe.
neutral · AI labelView post →Youngest talked us into watching “You Are So Not Invited To My Bat Mitzvah” and Adam Sandler is like if my dad were a bit more of an asshole
neutral · AI labelView post →Trying to think of new ways to engage middle school-age kids in therapy makes me feel like Sarah Sherman’s rabbi character in You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah. Like, “brains are randomsauce.”
neutral · AI labelView post →#currenteveningmovie = You Are So Not Invited To My Bat Mitzvah Second watch. Absolutely lovely. Sunny Sandler’s a star.
positive · AI labelView post →My ★★★★★ review of You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah on Letterboxd boxd.it/4SkduL
positive · AI labelView post →Movies about friendship are so rare. I *loved* You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah.
positive · AI labelView post →Possibly warm take, but You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah should win an Oscar and if it doesn't, it's antisemitism
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