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86 reactions from 3 sources (Bluesky, Mastodon, TMDB reviews) · newest Oct 14, 2026 · last updated Oct 15, 2026 · How this works
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You Hurt My Feelings is a 2023 drama comedy romance film, directed by Nicole Holofcener, starring Julia Louis-Dreyfus, Tobias Menzies and Michaela Watkins.
- 81 people have posted about this film on Bluesky, Mastodon, TMDB reviews
- posts span Jan 23, 2023 to Oct 14, 2026
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60 of 86 · most liked firstI can't stop thinking about the trailer for the new Marvel movie referring to Florence Pugh, Sebastian Stan, and Julia Louis-Dreyfus respectively as the stars of Midsommar, A Different Man, and You Hurt My Feelings, like they're just some hot indie stars and not recurring Marvel actors.
neutral · AI labelView post →A movie I really liked: "You Hurt My Feelings" on Netflix Highly recommend. May watch it again.
positive · AI labelView post →Last night I was thinking I would love for Odenkirk's next move to be a sweet comedy like You Hurt My Feelings (Holofcener) or On the Rocks (Coppola). Can we PLEASE see him in a cashmere cardigan having a friendly argument at brunch
neutral · AI labelView post →Last year was pretty much just Talk to Me and You Hurt My Feelings, but we did get the all-time greatest TWO-sentence title. www.itsmemargaret.movie
neutral · AI labelView post →HOW DARE YOU HURT MY FEELINGS HOYO
neutral · AI labelView post →For International Women's Day, I made a case, in my review of 2023's You Hurt My Feelings, for Nicole Holofcener as one of our best screenwriters--one of our best directors, too (and someone savvy enough to cast James Gandolfini as a romantic lead). siffblog2.blogspot.com/2023/05/juli...
neutral · AI labelView post →Watching Enough Said to feel sad and then immediately watching You Hurt My Feelings to feel better. The Nicole Holofcener Therapeutic System ™️
neutral · AI labelView post →I know everyone is citing VEEP, but she made a movie a couple years back called YOU HURT MY FEELINGS that’s a complete delight.
neutral · AI labelView post →To close out the 1st round of Slate Movie Club 2023, @markharris.bsky.social dishes about the lessons to be learned from Barbenheimer & the twilight of the age of superheroes, along w/ a mini-valentine to the Nicole Holofcener/Julia Louis-Dreyfus joint You Hurt My Feelings. slate.com/culture/2023...
neutral · AI labelView post →Last night, I watched You Hurt My Feelings, which might be too realistic of a depiction of being a writer/professor…
neutral · AI labelView post →Speaking of which: I'm finally catching up with You Hurt My Feelings, and it's really amazing and wonderful and it's making me nauseous.
positive · AI labelView post →Now Watching YOU HURT MY FEELINGS (2023) FilmSky 🎥
neutral · AI labelView post →Slate Movie Club, Part 5: Dana Stevens goes deeper on "the waning of superhero monoculture," and also on You Hurt My Feelings--we're both fans!--and Kelly Reichardt's Showing Up. slate.com/culture/2023...
neutral · AI labelView post →"You Hurt My Feelings" was great. Witty and well-acted, with Julia Louis-Dreyfus in the lead and a lot of recognizable faces. www.rogerebert.com/reviews/you-...
positive · AI labelView post →Slate Movie Club, Part 7: @ezwrites.bsky.social takes us from You Hurt My Feelings and Showing Up to Beau is Afraid and asks me a difficult question! slate.com/culture/2023...
neutral · AI labelView post →Trump: I'M SUING YOU!! You hurt me financially!!! BBC: Oh, we hurt you financially? T: YES!!! B: Okay, let us see your finances to check the damage. T: ... B: We're waiting. T: I'M SUING YOU!! YOU HURT MY FEELINGS!!!
neutral · AI labelView post →#NowWatching You Hurt My Feelings on DVD. #FilmSky #Moviesky
neutral · AI labelView post →Merry merry! For Slate Movie Club, I wrote about the movies I related to this year: Showing Up, You Hurt My Feelings, and, uh, Beau Is Afraid slate.com/culture/2023...
neutral · AI labelView post →Year-end movie watching and catch-up season, ranked 1) The Holdovers 2) Dream Scenario [gap] 3) Poor Things 4) Air 5) You Hurt My Feelings 6) Blackberry 7) The Wonderful Story of Henry Sugar 8) Confess, Fletch 9) Maestro 10) Oppenheimer [gap] 11) May/ December
positive · AI labelView post →Using "You Hurt My Feelings" to sell a Marvel movie is funny. Like, indicating "Yes, this too will be irrelevant and dull".
neutral · AI labelView post →Started the movie You Hurt My Feelings last night, thought “I do not give a single goddamn about any of these over-privileged morons,” turned it off. Lasted even less time with Me & You & Everyone We Know. Feel lately like I just need more (in the abstract sense) magic out of a film than all that.
negative · AI labelView post →Last night’s film - You Hurt My Feelings. Refreshing, grown up, non-hyperbolic relationship movie with one particular stunner of a piece of writing that was so low key it’d be easy to miss. Enjoyed it.
positive · AI labelView post →You Hurt My Feelings is the most romantic movie I’ve seen in years.
positive · AI labelView post →Watching “You Hurt My Feelings” (2023). 🎥 🎞️ #filmsky
neutral · AI labelView post →this movie was so great, but warning, if you and your partner are both creatives large segments will feel like your exact life You Hurt My Feelings (2023) dir nicole holofcener
positive · AI labelView post →Totally get that, there’s something deeply satisfying about a smart, well-crafted movie that doesn’t need to be “great” to be a good time. *Confess, Fletch* especially has that breezy, witty charm, and *You Hurt My Feelings* nails the small, observant human moments.
neutral · AI labelView post →It's probably partly due to middle age, but since the pandemic I've learned to really appreciate engaging, well-made flicks that don't have to be fantastic: Confess Fletch, The Sheep Detectives, You Hurt My Feelings
neutral · AI labelView post →My ★★★ review of You Hurt My Feelings (2023) on @letterboxd: boxd.it/5Ts6JR)
neutral · AI labelView post →evie PROVE TO THE PEOPLE YOU HURT MY FEELINGS THEN MAYA MAYA SAVE ME MAYAYAAYAYAUA MAYAAAAA
neutral · AI labelView post →Movies & shows I watched or finished this week, ranked: Aristotle & Dante Discover the Secrets of the Universe🏳️🌈 The Righteous Gemstones S4🍿 Stranger Things S4🍿 The Four Seasons S1🍿 You Hurt My Feelings 🎥 Wicked Little Letters 🎥 #moviesky 🎥 #tvsky 📺 #bingeable🍿 #gaymovies 🏳️🌈 * rewatch; ~dropped
neutral · AI labelView post →1. Smoke Sauna Sisterhood (2023) 2. Movie Pass Movie Crash 3. Sasquatch Sunset 4. Carol Doda Topless at the Condor 5. You Hurt My Feelings (2023) 6. Perfect Days (2023) 7. Out of Sight (1998) 8. Bad Shabbos 9. Girls State 10. I Know Where I'm Going (1945) 11. The Apprentice 12. Tuesday 13. Homegrown
neutral · AI labelView post →Aha, when I first read this I thought you were talking about the 2023 Nicole Holofcener movie that I now realize was called YOU HURT MY FEELINGS. Also very good! Also strong performances! Maybe not "warped" though
positive · AI labelView post →Finally got to see YOU HURT MY FEELINGS today. Wow, what a terrific, funny movie. It goes without saying, but I'll say it anyway...Julia Louis-Dreyfus is one of the funniest people ever and we're lucky to have her.
positive · AI labelView post →Watched: You Hurt My Feelings Review - White neurosis: the movie Charming and fun though. I cackled with the vengeance of a living marriage.
neutral · AI labelView post →reblogged a gifset of julia louis-dreyfus from 1994 and said "she's so hot" and in 1994, but also in 2023. i watched YOU HURT MY FEELINGS (good movie)!
positive · AI labelView post →I watched You Hurt My Feelings and at one point, when Julia Louis-Dreyfus was walking down the street and reflected in a shop window, I thought it was unfair to the movie that I'd rewatched Chungking Express the night before. THAT'S a movie that makes cinema out of window reflections.
neutral · AI labelView post →#NowWatching You Hurt My Feelings (2023) #Filmsky #A24 #Streaming
neutral · AI labelView post →TV: You Hurt My Feelings (Netflix) The first A24 film I didn’t like. Look, I actively live my life avoiding what the movie depicts: people lying to each other every single day to “be nice.” It also lacked satisfying commentary on being a creative. The humor was meh. Idk, this one was not for me.
negative · AI labelView post →Movie Diary - A Real Pain, You Hurt My Feelings, Sly Lives (aka The Burden of Black Genius), The Gorge, Slay, Longlegs, You're Cordially Invited, Fly Me To The Moon, etc. narrowcast.blogspot.com/2025/02/movi...
neutral · AI labelView post →YOU HURT MY FEELINGS is on Netflix now! Don't snooze - I'm in a couple of fun scenes. You will like this movie! www.netflix.com/title/81687143
positive · AI labelView post →You Hurt My Feelings with Julia Louis-Dryfus. Good movie. I really can't guess what the point of this movie was supposed to be. It's up to you, the viewer. Quiet, interesting, watchable. #watching
neutral · AI labelView post →4. You Hurt My Feelings (2023): I just watched this one this morning. It's rare to see a movie about a happy couple working through a problem and coming out okay on the other side. This one is refreshing!
positive · AI labelView post →LOVED: May/December Past Lives LIKED: Saltburn Barbie You Hurt My Feelings DIDN'T ENJOY: Maestro Leave The World Behind STILL TO SEE: Poor Things The Color Purple DESPERATE TO AVOID: Clooney Rowing Movie
positive · AI labelView post →I think the biggest scam that was pulled off this year was making people believe "You Hurt My Feelings" was a good movie in any sense of the word
negative · AI labelView post →This is why You Hurt My Feelings might end up being my favorite movie of the year. Sweet simple story, and the married couple actually loved each other.
positive · AI labelView post →You Hurt My Feelings is a good writerly movie.
positive · AI labelView post →Last night’s movie: You Hurt My Feelings. A surprisingly anxious, downbeat take on the chattering classes, who here are depressed and self-questioning. I liked it.
positive · AI labelView post →That whole style is lost to the movie ether. It's a shame. However, felt that YOU HURT MY FEELINGS captured that good old NYC glow. The walks on the street, the apartments, book stores and just talking. Felt so great watching that movie and attributed a lot of the feeling to the visual comfort aura.
positive · AI labelView post →37. You Hurt My Feelings (2023) What a lovely warm blanket of a movie. I loved this. It’s all about stalling out but it’s so kind. Strong recommend.
positive · AI labelView post →You wanna be mad about a bad movie? Flip a table over YOU HURT MY FEELINGS, a visually drab exercise in solipsism. I am still angry that I sat in a theater for that! (Yes I am fully aware of how Holofcener films work and this one is like, fucking awful even for her)
negative · AI labelView post →I am so behind on this year's movies. Haven't seen Past Lives, Asteroid City, Nimona, Rye Lane, You Hurt My Feelings, Monica, How to Blow Up a Pipeline, A Thousand and One, and that's just the stuff that's out. Am I even a movie nerd anymore? Have I officially given up?
neutral · AI labelView post →Watch Julia Louis-Dreyfus and Tobias Menzies in the trailer for You Hurt My Feelings http://bit.ly/3JXwfwQ #YouHurtMyFeelings #NicoleHolofcener #JuliaLouisDreyfus #TobiasMenzies #trailer #film
neutral · AI labelView post →I watched You Hurt My Feelings last night and its pretty gd great
positive · AI labelView post →The (movie) You Hurt My Feelings 1080p (iTunes)(CA) C$4.99 (Comedy) (iMDB) 7.0 Cast: Julia Louis-Dreyfus, Tobias Menzies, Michaela Watkins, Arian Moayed, Owen Teague, Amber Tamblyn
neutral · AI labelView post →I rated You Hurt My Feelings (2023) 8/10 #IMDb
positive · AI labelView post →The worst movie I've ever watched is YOU HURT MY FEELINGS. I've said it before on here. Couldn't walk out of the theater because I was with a friend so I had to sit through that piece of torture
negative · AI labelView post →You Hurt My Feelings was a super cute / funny movie, highly recommend 🍿
positive · AI labelView post →The (movie) You Hurt My Feelings (4K) (HD/HDX) is available today on (Vudu) (US) for $5 Cast: Tobias Menzies, Julia Louis-Dreyfus, Arian Moayed, Amber Tamblyn, David Cross, Owen Teague Genre: (Comedy) Trailer & Reviews : www.rottentomatoes.com/m/you_hurt_m...
neutral · AI labelView post →Movie review You Hurt My Feelings A very disfunctional group of people. But we liked them movie. You likely will.
positive · AI labelView post →Watched "You Hurt My Feelings" on Netflix and went looking for the book it's based on; I'd love a deeper dive into the story. Sadly, it was written as a movie and there is no book. Sigh.
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